Saturday, June 24, 2006

In a comment on my previous post Candace asked:

"But how do you categorize this act as one of submission rather than one of intimacy and caring?"

Submission can be intimate and caring. In fact, that's my favorite form of submission. I don't relate to many of the images or stories I read on women being in charge.

To me, most femdom art is far too focused on pain--which I don't have much interest in (apart from a little spanking, and I don't even like that to get too painful)

Although I've no problem with it, I'm not interested in leather, chains and whips etc..

I prefer to provide caring, intimate servitude to my wife.

I'm happy to answer your question and keep sending them my way.


At 9:12 PM, Blogger Lady Julia said...

I'd enjoy seeing FemDom art that deals with the more caring aspects of D/s as well. Do you know who did the artwork for this entry?

At 12:11 AM, Blogger Happy SubHub said...

Lady Julia, thanks for your comment. It can be a little challenging to find FemDom art that is focused on caring--but it is the only FemDom art I really like. I believe (but am not 100% sure) that this is from Sardax.

At 6:41 AM, Blogger Lady Julia said...

Thanks for the info :) Good luck with your blog!

At 9:47 PM, Blogger helpmate hubby said...

Love your blog and the art is awesome, hope to find some like that to put on mine.

At 10:17 AM, Blogger Biff said...

You sound like an exceptional man. More men should concern themselves with intimacy and caring, whether they consider themselves submissives or not. I hope your lover realizes how fortunate she must be!

At 7:36 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a submissive husband. I sometimes need a spanking, something that she has become very good at delivering. But more than that, I need to serve the one who loves me, to meet her needs as she meets mine.

One issue we encounter is that she is so completely acculturated to pleasing me. I work hard to draw her out, to get clarity from her on how best to meet her needs. I will do anything she asks me to.

Lovely art; lovely site.


At 5:55 PM, Blogger helpmate hubby said...

Notice you've been active leaving comments, any hope we will get an update on your own blog soon?

At 10:26 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I highly recomend all family, D/s life style is very happy and spice of your life.always respect wife and obey them.its not a shame.our wife we want to keep happy and help her all the way like a servant. same time dom wife also sexually satisfy their sub husband well. if we do ths way we can be happy and life will go her every small things. like wash dishes, clean house, wash rooms, do laundrying, help cooking, massage her body and feet , any small small help make our life happy and very interesting.I am follow all the wife some time humiliate me if i do wrong. that also interesting. even most of the time she slap me if i do wrong or not doing properly. that means she is trying to correct and teach dissipline.i am happy sub husband to my wife. so good luck of your journey.

At 6:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I want a submissive you!!

At 8:48 PM, Anonymous sam said...

I know just what you mean, I've been with my gf/mistress for over a year now and what we do is much more caring and softer than anything ive seen but i still very much submit to her and love being her slave. She loves me and is always careful not to hurt me and i wish I could find things online that focused more on that.


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