Sunday, October 15, 2006

Still Here.

Dear all, just a quick note to let you know I haven't vanished (like several other popular blogs). Sometimes regular, everyday life gets too busy and hectic to post.

I noticed that the dissappearing blogs tended to be those who did too much too quick. Personally, for our relationship I don't like the idea of involving a 3rd party sexually in the relationship. Cuckolding may work for some people, but it's not a road we want to go down.

Hope to have more sooner rather than later.


At 12:13 PM, Blogger helpmate hubby said...

Glad your still around! Nice pic too, and i agree withg what you say about those blogs which have disappeared having done to much too soon and suffered from burnout.

At 5:17 PM, Blogger Polyfetishist said...

Most of what you see on the web about cuckolding is fake. And some of the couples that try it wind up getting divorced because the man was foolish enough to pressure his wife into doing something he really couldn't handle.

At 2:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with polyfetishist that pressuring one's wife in cuckolding is not good. At the same time, if you live in a Fem Dom relationship than you should consider refraining from pressuring her against exploring her sexuality with others.

I planted the cuckolding idea in my wife's head. It was the logical next step in our FemDom relationship. I then stood back and she's run with it. I've tried to stay neutral and supportive, encouraging her to enjoy herself and be safe. She appreciates having me as her "safe harbor."

So, I suggest that if you purport to be submissive to your wife you should refrain from digging in on either side of the cuckold/no-cuckold issue and let her be your guide.

At 3:01 PM, Blogger Mike said...

Brand new here. Came across this site by typing in a few keywords on the net. Wife and I are in our mid forties, very good relationship.

We usually give each other oral prior to intercourse. About 3 months ago while I was giving her oral I reached down and began fondling myself to get harder for penetration, and I was laying in such a way as she saw me doing this. She said 'oh that's hot'. And she is not the type to express herself much verbally about sex.

Since our sex life is in much need of variety, I have been willing to try anything lately to jump start it.
So, I did this oral/fondling myself combination several more times since, and she has liked it just as much as the first time. Once while doing this I failed to stop in time, and ejaculated. And her reaction this time was much more intense.

A little later I told her sorry I did not hold off for you, so you could orgasm. She said that was just as satisfying as if she had orgasmed. I was really surprised ! I asked how so ? She said 'I don't know, it is different with women. It made me feel special/pampered/powerful.' I asked powerful ? She did not elaborate.

Not sure as to what I am on to. But since we started this her libido has increased dramatically and mine because of hers. She would never suggest this kind of variety, but she apparently does like something about it. I just cannot put my finger on it. I want to keep it going. I never thought I would like this kind of thing, but since it turns her on, it turns me on.

I read a little bit of this site, and most is too much to try with her. But if something is very subtle and gradual, it may add to our discovery.

Very interested in ideas or suggestions. Looking forward to hearing from you guys.

At 1:47 PM, Anonymous Happy Submissive Husband said...

Happy Submissive Husband here, I changed computers last year and forgot my logon for this blog. Unfortunately I set up a different email address to create this blog and now have no record of this email address to even reset my password. As it stands I have no other way of updating this blog apart from this comment.

My wife gave birth last year and we've been extremely busy. Another baby on the way, kinda gets in the way of our LFA especially when I arrive home late from work, tired. However, we both know she's the boss and have occasional femdom experiences described in my blog.

As I read with a lot of other blogs it comes and goes in terms of our motivation and sex drive (probably just like most vanilla marriages).

At 10:26 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I highly recomend all family, D/s life style is very happy and spice of your life.always respect wife and obey them.its not a shame.our wife we want to keep happy and help her all the way like a servant. same time dom wife also sexually satisfy their sub husband well. if we do ths way we can be happy and life will go her every small things. like wash dishes, clean house, wash rooms, do laundrying, help cooking, massage her body and feet , any small small help make our life happy and very interesting.I am follow all the wife some time humiliate me if i do wrong. that also interesting. even most of the time she slap me if i do wrong or not doing properly. that means she is trying to correct and teach dissipline.i am happy sub husband to my wife. so good luck of your journey.

At 4:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...


I think most of us need to be submissive to our wifes in a loving realistic and private relationship first. One where submission is proven daily and often, before cuckolding should be considered.

At 11:32 AM, Blogger 505 said...

Obviously, those blogs that do little very seldom tend to vanish also.

At 2:29 AM, Blogger sub hubby said...

Havign just experienced my first cuck experience where She LOVED the sex with the other guy, I 'd urge caution - it messed up my head big time, but I'm lucky we came through.

At 7:36 PM, Blogger vs-boy said...

I am still trying to gather the courage to come out to tell my wife that I want her to be the dominant partner in our relationship. I had the same problem with losing the passwords and had to make a new blog, so I feel your pain.

As far as lines not to be crossed, I KNOW I don't want cuckholding to be a part of my relationship.

At 6:24 AM, Anonymous Miler said...

Wife-led marriage works for me. Can't imagine any other way.

At 6:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

check out this blog we started, I am looking for a few ideas and suggestions can anyone help?


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